What's the Difference Between an Unattended Funeral and a Direct Cremation?
If nobody shows up to a party, is it still technically considered a party? The same could be suggested about funeral packages referred to as unattended funerals. If nobody attends, is it even really a funeral? Although the term unattended funerals is certainly a contradiction, it's generally just another name for a direct cremation service. But what is a direct cremation, and does it affect a family's ability to have a traditional funeral?
The Least Fuss
A direct cremation is perhaps the end of life option with the least amount of fuss. This is often the point. In many instances, it's the most cost-effective solution. It's also a valid option for individuals who, as strange as it might sound, don't want to make a fuss about their departure from the world. What does it involve?
Without Delay
When the person in question passes away, their remains are transported to the crematorium, where they're cremated without much delay. The cremation might take place that same day, and any delays are down to the crematorium's existing schedule. However, it will happen promptly, without any mourners in attendance. This is why it's sometimes called an unattended funeral.
At a Later Date
Even though the process is called an unattended funeral, it doesn't exclude the possibility of formal funeral services being held at a later date. Of course, there will be no casket at the service, but the ceremonial urn containing the cremated remains can be left on display. Since the funeral will take place after the cremation, this permits extra time to make the necessary funeral arrangements.
A Formal or Informal Farewell
These arrangements can be as formal or informal as you like. You may wish to hold a religious service in a church, a celebration of life held at a private home or a traditional funeral held at a funeral home's chapel. In any event, the ceremonial importance of a funeral and the role it plays in grieving and accepting the loss should not be overlooked. As such, you should consult a funeral director to discuss your many options.
Family and friends may find it curious, and even a little disheartening, when a loved one chooses direct cremation, which is exactly the same as an unattended funeral. While their wishes must be respected, you still have the opportunity to bid farewell to your loved one at a traditional funeral or memorial service.
Keep these tips in mind when talking to local funeral services.
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